Would you want your 16 year old girlfriend getting drunk around other guys?

My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. Im a year and a half older than her. I just turned 18 and shes 16. Im in KY right now %26amp; shes in MO. i wont see her again till thanksgiving. she was telling me about a party that she wants to go to thats a dress-up party. I asked who was having it and it was someone i didnt know so I asked her if there would be alchohol there and she said yes. I asked her to promise me that she wouldnt drink and she said no, that she wanted to. I have a problem with this bc 1. shes underage 2. she promised me before she wouldnt drink untill she was 21. 3. I dont want my gf getting drunk at a party that i cant be at with a lot of other guys around. Then she said that she was wearing a maid outfit that she showed me a pic of and it looks slutty (her butt will practically show) I asked her to wear somethign under the bottom part so it wouldnt look slutty and she got mad so i dropped that . But i told her that if she didnt promise me she wouldnt drink or get drunk id talk to her mom about her going to the party that has alchohol and no adult supervision. She then said "ill do what i want. were over" and this seemed totally unlike her. was what i did wrong? i just wanted her to be safe n out of trouble.

Would you want your 16 year old girlfriend getting drunk around other guys?
She's not worth her time. You showed that you really cared about her and yet she doesn't quite see that. She should learn drinking at such an early age can seem fun, but it just ruins your body and your life. She should think through it more.





I do suggest you tell her parents. She said you guys 'were over' so if she can do whatever she want, you surely can do whatever you want that's legal of course. If she gets mad at you, oh well. Just because she's 16 doesn't mean she's old enough to actually take care of herself and think she can do what she wants. I don't know the details from the relationship so i'm just basing this all on what you typed.





Just my opinion. Sorry for voicing so much. Haha. I just hate it when people act like that.
Reply:She doesn't sound like much of a catch. I think you should find someone better.
Reply:i don't think you did anything wrong.you seem very nice and trying to protect her.hm..i think,there's something wrong with her.myb she has a problem with you can't see each other for a long time.myb she's bored?i don't know.you need to talk.
Reply:oh her attitude is way too childish.. she didnt value the concern that you showed her.. give this a break!
Reply:Tell her parents what happened.