I'm so depressed and jealous...any tips?

I've been to 4 weddings over the past 2 years. And I just found out that my brother (20 years old) just got married last month. I'm 23, and everyone's getting married but me.





I haven't even been none of the men I dated 4 years ago even had marriage on the mind. %26amp; about 4 years ago after I made my celibacy vow, many men said some harsh things to me. Like, "no man is going to marry you or even want you if you don't put out." and "this is the 21st century, people don't do that any more."


I'm beginning to think that i'll die an old maid as they used to say.





Nothing but immature guys and old men approach me. I'm so jealous that just about all the girls I grew up with are married, and not me. And this is making me miserable.


I don't want to break my vow, because I swore to God.





is there any hope? and if not is there anything that can be done to make me stop feeling like this?

I'm so depressed and jealous...any tips?
oh my, you are only 23..you are still very young and you have a whole lot of years ahead of you. Many people like to rush things, and usually it never works out. Just keep in mind that what you are doing is great, and believe it or not, many man out there have more respect for a female who doesn't put out, its worth the wait. Don't feel depressed or jealous, good things comes to those who wait. God's time is the best time!
Reply:I don't really believe in the whole waiting to have sex before marriage thing, but hey if you do then don't give up, am sure there is someone out there for you, someone who will love you enough to respect and to wait, just be patient. Remember everything happens for a reason, you never know if the right man for you it's right around the corner. Good luck ^-^
Reply:don't worry, its ok. most of them are just horny guys. some of which are very common in the 21st century as well, eventually you will find someone that doesn't think that making a celibacy vow is dumb, and will be understanding. after a few mistakes I've made up my mind to kinda have a celibacy vow... in a way.. because of some harsh mistakes that I've made. I feel ya...
Reply:i know exactly how you feel. My cousin just got remarried and a friend of mine is getting remarried. Im like crap i cant even get a girlfriend





all i can have is have faith you will find your prince charming