I have been seen naked by the maid.?

The bathroom lock in my house is old and sometimes the door says unlock even if you put the latch.


I had just gotten out of the shower... i was standing totally naked when the maid opened the door. i was so shooked i just stood there....... she started laughing and even stared at my........ even though she kept apologizing i felt really violated because she didn't leave the room immediately.. she kept staring.. and saying she is really sorry and looking down ... and that is when she started laughing. I honestly think she did it on purpose because she must have heard the water running. its really loud.. We never really got along.. she is mexican and pretty however a little stuck up and has a bit of an attitude. my parents however like her a lot. I think she did on purpose to make me feel stupid. Everything time i see her now she always starts laughing. I really do feel stupid because lets just say the water was really cold.. and umm.. i was not hard. it definitely looked pretty small

I have been seen naked by the maid.?
First of all, she is obviously an adult and you are under 18. You have assumed that she was laughing at your physical stature at the time. That may be true, or may not. She actually could've seen something else at the time. Or she could have been embarrassed and she deals with it by laughing. However, if she did it on purpose, than by responding to her everytime she laughs, you are giving her power over the situation. There's a couple of things that you can do. One of them is to go to your parents and request that if the shower is running that the maid stay out of the bathroom, period. There is no need for her to walk in, especially if the water is running.





IF you don't want to confront your Dad about this issue, than there is another alternative that will take longer. It requires that you hold your head up, and instead of being embarassed by her, be unfazed by her reactions. You do this several ways. First, realize that you don't know her real reason for reacting as she did, and you don't need to know. Two, when you look at her, instead of making locking eye contact, look thru her. When you look thru someone, it's like you're aware they are there, but you don't lock eye contact, you gaze to the shoulder or at the wall behind their head. If she laughs, and she will, just ignore it and continue the pattern. Eventually she will stop when it's no fun to get you to blush anymore. Since you haven't said anything to your parents about her discrepancy walking in the bathroom on you, than right now she has the upper hand. Good luck and remember, if someone is talking/laughing/gossiping about you, than they are leaving some other poor soul alone. It's not physical, so just use your mind to let it go.
Reply:just try to avoid her, one time my maid saw me changing but i didnt really care because im a girl and shes a girl and all she saw was me in my bra and she was just like sorry and she left my room. but i guess its different because ur a guy and shes a girl but i know how you feel because once i was changing and then i noticed that my window was open so when i walked over to close it i noticed that the pool guy was outside cleaning the pool and i was so scared that he saw me because hes a guy and im a girl so i told my mom and she was like he probably didnt even see you. but i think that u should just tell ur maid that u feel uncomfortable when she laughs and you would appreciate it if she just tries to pretend it never happened. i dont think she did it on purpose and i think she kept looking down because she was in shock
Reply:People laugh when they are nervous.





Sounds like you might be upset because she was not impressed with your genitalia and you feel inadequate around her.





Now you have an idea of what women go through when they are judged solely based on their bodies.





Perhaps she is stuck-up around you to keep you at distance because she is not interested in you sexually or romantically.


You also seem to have mixed feelings about her first you list all her faults and then say she is pretty.





Remember people don't make you feel anything unless you let them.


Realize that it was an awkward moment for the both of you and move on.