I feel sorry for my older sister. Is that terrible of me? Or is it ok to?

She's 38. She just moved to a new state and lives in a big house alone. Since she's new to the area, she doesn't know many people. She's in social work and doesn't make much money. She's alone every night of the week. Last time I visited, I heard her talking to herself. I think she's becoming bitter old maid. I feel sorry for her but is that wrong of me? I can't help it.

I feel sorry for my older sister. Is that terrible of me? Or is it ok to?
Quit feeling sorry for her and encourage her to get out and do something! Maybe she could join a church, hobby group, volunteer etc. My friend Jackie wrote a profile for her mom on a dating site and paid for it, she annoyed her mother so much about about, her mom gave in and had a few dates, but if your sister is bitter, that may be hard. Have you thought about sending her something that may help fill the hours, pay for a dvd service, get her hooked up with video on her computer so you can chat each night face to face and have a set time to do it, pay for a gym membership.
Reply:Take her to church sometime.The United Pentecostal Church is a good one.She can make friends there.
Reply:try and be a good friend to your siater. spend more time with her.
Reply:Maybe she wants to be alone.

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