Maid of honor?

Okay, so my sister is getting married in July and I have been asked to be the maid of honor. I'm very excited! I also am married. Yeah I know being jealous in any relationship is never a good thing, but both my husband and I are on the jealous side. As most weddings go, the bridesmaid's walk down in arm with the groomsmen... and that is how my sister's wedding is going to be...however, the man I will be walking with is nearly 30 years older than me, and is also married. Though, my husband still is having a problem with this...to the point that he doesn't even want to go. The way he sees it is that I am buying a fancy dress to walk in arm with another man. It would mean alot to me to have him there too... But I feel now that if he goes he's going to ruin it all by being upset about it, and then it's going to make me in a bad mood... but if I don't go, then I'd be missing out on my sister's wedding... what should I do?!

Maid of honor?
It's your Sister wedding.. If he can't accept the fact you're just walking down the isle your not sleeping with him. Why so insecure. Good lord after all it's your sister.





Tell him to suck it up. Don't ruin it for your sister, after all it's a milestone in her life and she's wants you to part of it. So do it for your sister.. and yourself.
Reply:and who's wedding is this again? yeah, your sister's. Your darlings sister's big day. Don't screw it up. You could get back at your sister later on your wedding day, but not hers.
Reply:Tell your husband to grow up, you're married to him, you'll dance with him at your sisters wedding...heck, you even SLEEP with him!!! Generally, the MOH walks down the aisle during the recessional with the best man....and if there's a dance for the wedding party, then they'll dance at that...THAT'S IT!!! Your hubby really needs to get a life if he's that jealous. Actually, he needs counseling if he's that jealous....
Reply:be the maid of honor then let ur husband have the prerogative to attend or not. after all being the maid of honor is such an HONOR. u get to be chosen to be that person %26amp; its great
Reply:tell your husband you love hI'm and your not buying the dress for the guy but for your sister and its about her not about who you are paired up with im mean seriously he could be your dad eeewww!
Reply:Waoh what a great big baby you married? What is his problem? You are just walking down the aisle with an old man to be in you sister's wedding. If this really is causing a problem they you guys have real problems. I can't believe that a grown man could be so childish. If I were you I would toss him back in the lake and look for something a bit more mature, and that would be almost anything. Sheesh what a looser
Reply:You should definitely go. Talk to your husband... explain to him that it's important that you be there for your sister... he should understand that anyway.
Reply:let your hubby know that he needs to get off it, we are living in 2007, not the victorian ages. why should he be jealous if you are taking part in your sister,s wedding. if he doesn't trust tell him to come with you so he can see your every move
Reply:It really isn't all about you...You and your husband need to grow up. It's a wedding for god's sake not a swingers convention.
Reply:GO she's your sister and you've been asked to be maid of honor which is certainly an honor no doubt. Talk to your sister and tell her that your husband is considering not coming because of this and find out if there is anyway that your husband can take place of the man 30 years older than you....she's your sister she'll understand





Good Luck


and your welcome
Reply:Jealous of what ?, every one is already married.





two words = grow up





three words = get over it





four words = have a good time





five words = do it for your sister