Maid Of Honor Hell,?

So I have a huge problem and need help by sunday, I have two really close friends (I will call them Debbie and Sally) I met Sally before Debbie and Sally is happens to be my daughters godmother and she was there for me when My mother passed away. I met Debbie though Sally, but as we have all moved and grown older me and Debbie have gotten closer and my fiance and her live in Boyfriend are good friends. So I really after all is said in done want Debbie to be my maid of honor because we are always hanging out and we have so many plans and me and Sally only see each one a month. So my question is how do I let Sally down as she thinks she is my maid of honor because we had always said before I was engaged that she would be the maid of honor... ohhh and she is always full of drama please help

Maid Of Honor Hell,?
In the long run who really is the better friend? which one would it really hurt to lose? this way you'll know who your friends really are!
Reply:It sounds like you've already answered your question. If you made a promise to a friend that you both remember, don't you think it would be the right thing to do. I'm sure the other friend would be happy to just be there for you on that day. Another case in point: some brides don't have Maids of Honor, just a panel of bride's maids.
Reply:Uh oh, I think you have to go with Sally for political reasons. I mean, yea, everyone is going to say - you should do what you want, it's your day, blah blah, Sally should understand, if she is really your friend, she will support you - but guess what - you take the chance of that not happening and it's not worth hurting Sally just because the opportunity to get closer to Debbie was easier. Is one of them married and the other not? Because you could have a Maid of Honor and Matron of Honor. Or confide in Debbie and tell her what you just wrote, but that you don't want to hurt Sally and would Debbie mind being a bridesmaid. I would have Sally. But if you don't - just be prepared for the fact that Sally might be hurt and it might damage your friendship - because that is how we women are. Good luck!!!! :)