I am 35 and I am marrying a 34 year old. We have 2 b-maids who are our age, and 1 that is 50. Is this Wrong?

I am 50. I see nothing wrong with it, I have lots of friends that are younger, Tell your folks to butt the hell out. Why the hell do they care about your friend's age %26amp; why is it their business? If she is okay with it? I would be mighty frigging pissed off if somebody's mama told me I couldn't be in their wedding - WTF?!?! Have the people YOU want around you %26amp; tell mama to get over it

I am 35 and I am marrying a 34 year old. We have 2 b-maids who are our age, and 1 that is 50. Is this Wrong?
Guess what? It's your wedding and you get to decide. If you wanted to use dogs as bridesmaids, you could. Your parents need to get over it and mind their own business. Don't let other people pressure you into doing your wedding different. Take it from experience, I wish I would have stood up for myself and done what I wanted. Now I have regrets and wedding pics that remind me of that.
Reply:There is no reason that a 50 year old cannot be your bridesmaid - you choose the people YOU want to have in your wedding because they mean something special to you. It is your wedding, do what you want to in the selection of people to be in it. Have a happy day and a marriage filled with love.
Reply:No,it is not wrong at all.Your wedding day is one of the most special days of your lives.lt is your day holding your memories.You are entitled to ask whoever you both desire.l am sure your older bridesmaid will be very honoured to share in your wonderful day.Hope you all have a super day.
Reply:Hi and congratulations!





Well, no, it is not wrong. To be honest, I'm 51, and I must say I would feel kind of strange being a bridesmaid. But, that's me. Simply ask the person you are wanting how she feels!





If this is a family member, she may not feel strange about it. If she does and you still want her involved in the wedding, there are many other "things" she could do. Such as, greeting people at the door as handing out programs (if you are having them), doing a reading at the wedding, etc.





Good luck!
Reply:Of course it isn't wrong. Whatever you and your fiance choose is 100% correct. You chose that bridesmaid because she is special. What better reason than to have her! Times have changed, therefore wedding ceremonies have evolved. That's why wedings can be so varied and tailored to suit the couples needs. Have a wonderful wedding day!
Reply:The 50 year old would probably prefer to be called Maid of Honor, but of course it's not wrong if that's what you both want! Enjoy your day!
Reply:Absolutely OK. Why would you think this is wrong?
Reply:shame on your parents! your bridesmaids are who are closest to you and who you want to stand beside you on your special day. it is really none of their business.
Reply:Why would it be wrong? If you thought enough of this woman to ask her then nothing could make it wrong. She's special to you and that's all that matters. Your parents need to get over themselves.





best wishes
Reply:Go ahead buddy, there is nothing wrong in it.
Reply:No. Why would you think it is wrong? It is your wedding and you can choose anyone you want regardless of age. As long as it makes the two of you happy, who cares.