Since my husband thinks we are too old for sex & going out, I am telling him this?

I am now too old for house work and cooking. I am telling him that he needs to hire both a maid and a cook. After all if he is too old to have sex or go out, I am too old for chores. Do you think it will get his attention?

Since my husband thinks we are too old for sex %26amp; going out, I am telling him this?
Hi Cougar





If this is your outlet please dont stop posting these questions you have a wicked sense of humor.....hahahaha toooo old for chores lol Can I use this line .....





hahahahaha toooo old for sex man we busted ok walked in on my inlaws bout 5 years ago going at it like rabbits back then they were 86 and 76.....oh gosh that still ingrained in my brain like yesterday...
Reply:That's just being passive aggressive and playing child mind games... two poisonous things in a marriage.





He is using the "too old" excuse to cover up the real reason why he is disinterested in sex. I think you need to have a serious discussion about it. Say, "Aside from being too old, what are the other reasons that we can't have sex and go out?" Remind him that it is his duty as a husband to take care of these needs for you.





Additionally, find articles about older people regarding sex... like this one:


http://www.bottomlinesecrets.com/blpnet/...








Good luck!
Reply:Nah! Don't stoop to his level. Discuss the issue with him, and seek counseling if he refuses a dialogue with you. If you're not happy in your marriage, I would go to counseling and ask him to go with you. If he refuses, go without him.
Reply:LOVE IT!





And when he doesn`t believe you....just quietly stop doing ANYTHING for HIM (while you keep on cleaning the house and doing things that benefit you) Stop cooking for him, washing HIS clothes and anything else you do for him.


Trust me....THAT will get his attention!
Reply:You post this stuff all the time. If the marriage is that bad do something about it or leave. Complaining isn't magically fixing the problems is it? Good luck.
Reply:LOL that is too funny ..... You go girl .. And tell him 40 is the new 30 ... So 50 is 40 and 60 is the new 50.... Tell him to grow up or he is going to be one lonely , hungry sexless a**.... LOL....
Reply:He sounds to slow to even get the hit he would just think you mad at him for something da!No if he drinks now and then get him drunk some not and have your way with him,if he won't give help your self.
Reply:It sounds like you both are going to be a little bored! You're running out of things you're young enough to do! Good thing you're not too old for the internet.
Reply:hahahaha.





this is funny. well. it might get his attention.





get the old man some viagra and you buy a microwave.





enjoy your old age.
Reply:I think it won't get his attention, so much as it will piss him off.


That's pretty passive-aggressive.
Reply:Aren't YOU the one who wants to do the neighbor guy??





I doubt your husband thinks this I think your lonely and looking for attention..call doctor phil
Reply:Uh, be sure he's not getting off on the side w/ someone else. It sounds like he just doesn't want to do anything w/ you in general.
Reply:Is he haveing "Up" problems? Maybe he just needs a little blue pill......
Reply:Yes, I do! Good way of looking at it.
Reply:Honey give it a break. He did something nice get over it or leave!!!!
Reply:That ought to cause more friction....its time to talk divorce...this is no good for either of you...
Reply:Cougar....honey...sweetie...my friend. Let me tell you a story. In the last six months, my wife has stopped washing the clothes...including her own. In the last year, she has stopped going to the store. She will not go to the doctor unless the MD refuses to refill her prescriptions because he hasn't seen her. She says she feels bad and hurts all the time. Well, I am 5 years older than her. I have picked up her part of the laundry, tried to pick up most of the housecleaning, and I do all of the shopping. I do more than half of the cooking and she bitches every time she feels like she is forced to cook a meal. She knows out budget is tight aned I am trying to watch it as close as I can...but if it is her turn to cook she will order dinner to be delivered and not turn a care as to whether we can afford it or not. After all, I am the one that has to figure out how to pay all the bills. I work 65 hours a week...she works 30...and all I hear from her is how f***ing tired she is. Yet, she will not do anything about getting to the bottom of it.





I tried an experiment just to see how far she would go with all of this. She has steadfastly refused to efgver clean the cat box. I don't mind cleaning it. No big deal. But in the spirit of cooperation, I don't think it is out of line for me to ask her to clean it once or twice a month. I asked her to clean it one day. She didn't do it after saying that she would. I asked her the next day and the next day...she said she would and then didn't do it. I decided to see how long this would go on.





The cat box went 5 weeks without being changed....and I finally gave in because I couldn't stand it anymore.





I stopped washing her clothes...she just decided to stay home from work.





I have done everything I know to get her off her ***. I have tried to take her to counseling...she wont go.





Her health is terrible, but she could feel a lot better if she would just get off her ***. Instead, she just wants me to take care of her. If I were to leave her, I think the house would just fall down around her.





Of course, all of this is on top of not having sex with her for seven years now. It is all about her...what she wants...what she doesn't want. No one else matters to her...not even the people who care for her. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped.





So you can go on strike with your hubby, but don't expect a miracle. I am hanging on trying to do what I can to take care of myself. If having a one night stand can lift my spirits for a while, why not?