My fiance's sister is also getting married she asked his old girlfriend to be her maid of honor what to do

I understand why this is upsetting to you, but it's her wedding. She is obviously very close to this woman, if she has asked her to be her MOH.





As for "what to do?"... Take the high road - don't be petty, don't be mean, just act like everything is fine, smile and be friendly. It's one day you have to deal with this woman, and like another poster said - just dress nice, look your best and shine up that diamond!





Seriously, it's not worth making a problem with your SIL-to-be over this. You have to be around your SIL the rest of your married life. Also, putting your fiance in the middle will just make him uncomfortable. If HE wants to say something to his sister, that's his business. You need to stay out of it.





Congrats on your upcoming nuptials!

My fiance's sister is also getting married she asked his old girlfriend to be her maid of honor what to do
Nothing. It's his sister's choice NOT His.





How long did they date? If it was a long time, they probably have a close bond. I wouldn't think twice about it. If you trust your Fi (which I hope you do if you are getting married) then there should be no problem. After all, that's his EX and your his FIANCE. He obviously saw something in you, that was not in her.





With that said. The day of your wedding look your damn best. Don't ever upstage the bride, but do strive to look good. Buy yourself a nice new dress, get her hair and nails done the day off and polish up the engagement ring to is sparkles. Do this just in case SHE thinks her being the maid of honor makes her something more important then you.





Haha, don't be catty or cause a fight. But, something looking our best just let's the other women know, "yeah, he's mine and definitely NOT yours."
Reply:Nothing. She gets to pick whomever she wants, whether you're comfortable with it or not. And, if you're so insecure in your relationship that you feel threatened by his old girlfriend being in the same room, then you need to re-evaluate if you're ready for marriage. Why on Earth would this bother you? It's very junior-high-like.
Reply:I am not sure what you are asking... what to do about what?


You have no say in the situation. If she is friends with the girl then she has every right to ask her to be in the wedding.


You need to act mature and just deal with it.


It sucks and can be uncomfortable but there is nothing you can do abou it so make the best of it.
Reply:Your fiance should talk to her and explain that he's her family and the ex is the ex. That's really messed up on your SIL's part.
Reply:she's allowed to have relationships with people...





it's HER wedding, YOU don't control the universe.
Reply:nothing you can do... she is the ex... so get over it...t
Reply:there really isn't much you can do because it is her wedding. all you can do really is support your future sister-in-law and not start any problems
Reply:Show up and be nice
Reply:I would be very upset as this I feel is very disloyal to you and your fiance . I would ask my fiance to ask his sister why she felt the need to do this and then I would not go to her wedding and explain to my fiance and his parents why I am not going and then see what they say . good luck .
Reply:Asked whose old girlfriend? The groom's? While tacky, that's their business.
Reply:So what's the problem? I'm assuming the ex is a close friend of hers...and it should not be a problem to anyone else. She didn't dictate who you get to have in your wedding...so let her have whoever she wants! If he's marrying you he should be well past any feeling for the ex.

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