Old maid coming through....Scuse me?

Everyone I know seems to be married or getting married I'm 27 and still unmarried. Damnnn! I'm an old made why isn't anyone picking me. Even my crush has decided to marry someone. My life is sucking really really fast. Most of these people are in their mid to early twenties. I'm in my late twenties. Yikes!!!!!

Old maid coming through....Scuse me?
Well, if you're old, then I am positively ANCIENT. At 40 years old, I am STILL single! Never had a relationship fo longer than 18 months! And I couldn't give a TOSS about being an Old Maid!!!





Some people are just BETTER on their own. Others aren't and need a partner in their lives. So stop and THINK about things as they apply to you.





WHY do you want to get married? If it is JUST because everyone else is doing it, then that is probably the wrong reason! Is your crush someone that you GENUINELY want to spend the REST of your life with, no matter WHAT happens? If so, then you need to talk to him! If not, then why settle for someone who is not good enough for you!





27 is not an old age and you could still be married - and divorced - several times in the future with little difficulty. Have you ever stopped to think WHY you are still single? I have, and I know it is because I have yet to meet someone that I could love Until Death Do Us Part at the time that we wed...





Personally, I refuse to marry unlessI mean it for life. Okay, I realise that life doesn't always work that way and that things happen, people change. So what is meant to be for life is not necessarily so. BUT I will not get marriend for MAYBE! Besides, I am HAPPY as a single person! Okay, the sex life sucks sometimes, BUT I can do what I want to and I don't have to worry about anyone else's feelings. Until this changes, I will not get married.





Instead of worrying about what is right for others, think about what is right for YOU!! If you are still desperate to get married, then maybe there is something you need to change about yourself as a person, but I cannot comment on that without more information. But if you are happy with WHO YOU ARE and are NOT happy with the men in your life, why lead yourself down a path of misery just to be like everyone else!





I hope that this helps to put things into perspective.





Jara
Reply:You're still VERY young. Don't sweat it. You'll find the right guy. Just be sweet and don't settle.
Reply:its ok. don't start worrying till your over 30.


you don't need the stress.


just start dating again and let things progress naturally
Reply:I just turned 27 this year and just last year met my husband, got married, and now we are having a baby. Believe me, it all happens very quickly. You will meet the man of your dreams when you least expect it and your life will take off and lead you places you never imagined.
Reply:god but your`e old
Reply:Don't worry. The right one just hasn't come yet. In the meantime, go out, have fun, and don't look desperate. Men love a woman who has some independence, yet is vulnerable too.
Reply:Trust me, if you were a fly on the wall of some of these couples, you would be very glad you are unattached! The grass always looks greener.., and you are not an old made, you are not even really an old Maid. When you turn 30, then you will qualify, but by then you might be comfortable enough in your own skin to be glad, or at least realize that there is no reason to feel pressure from contrived social clocks.
Reply:Look at it this way... when you get married, it will only be your first marriage :)
Reply:Fine i'll marry you, but you are 7yrs older than me.
Reply:Hey! I'm 28 and I don't have any kids and I'm not married. I'm not an old maid! lol Marriage isn't for everyone. It's not the end all be all. If you really really really want to get married, stop thinking about it. If you obsess over it, it won't happen. Most people get divorced nowadays anyway. Give your friends about 2 years and they'll be back in the single life once again. I'm not being cynical either, that's just fact. There's a whole lot more to do in life than to be a wife and mother. Most people jump into that too quickly anyway. Marriage is sacred and shouldn't be taken lightly. Hats off to anyone who can make it work.
Reply:Dont sweat it. You will find the right person in time. Lots of folks wait until their 30s to get married. it will happen. believe it.
Reply:You're not old. People are getting married to early these days anyway. (My opinion.)