Oh My God...I dont want to be an old maid!Help!?

I'm 28 years old this coming June. As fas as I know I did my best but maybe I'm just not lucky in terms of love. I can't even go out for a date becoz I'm a homebody person and all of my friends too. I don't have male friends. I don't even interested on text mates and phone pal. Do you think I'm on the line to be an old maid??

Oh My God...I dont want to be an old maid!Help!?
Well this differs from how you explained yourself on your homepage. On it you state you like dancing, going to the beach etc. So I am confused if you are a homebody or a person who loves to take part in fun activities. But the sad fact is that if you do not go out and show the world a confident young woman then you may indeed end up an old maid or at least a lonely person. But if you are able to take part in fun activities then you should not have a hard time finding someone who will be interested in you.
Reply:seems like it hon... if you don't want to go out, go online but sometimes it's too risky... well, anyway... the choices we made in our life is up to us... you know what to do, maybe you didn't get lucky in love before but who knows what comes next right?
Reply:Are you sure you don't want to be? You said yourself you don't go anywhere. Something worthwhile requires a little effort. The men are out there but you won't find them sitting home Hon, you have to go find them. I'm talking about good men too, not just "guys".
Reply:That term doesn't even exist anymore I don't think. At least you are waiting and not dating everyone and end up with the wrong person. You will find a man if you want one and you don't have to hurry. That's all your decision. I got married at 25 and divorced at 30 and I don't want to get married any time soon. I'd rather be called an "Old Maid" than to have to deal with all the problems of marrying the wrong person brings.
Reply:What is wrong with being alone. Sounds like you have a nice life. Not everybody is ment to be married.
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Reply:Not at all, In fact I think you'll find what your looking for when you least expect it. However, if you see something you like don't waste anytime...just go for it. Introduce yourself and don't be shy. If you don't feel like doing that then go do something fun for yourself. Either way I'm sure you'll be just fine. Good luck!
Reply:No there are people that get married in their 30's and 40's. People these days get married at later ages. A lot of people dont get married as young as they used to I think its because when young people get married they realize that its a big mistake to get married so young. Just pray for God to send you that guy.
Reply:No, not at all. I'm sure you're lovely and kind--hang in there!
Reply:Most women born in June are late bloomers.
Reply:If those things don't interest you, that's fine. There's no rule that says you ever have to date or marry if you don't desire to do so. Live your life for you...make yourself happy...don't worry what other people do or what society may expect...it's YOU that you need to be concerned with...





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Reply:my sister's 33 and single, never been married, with know children. she does date, but she just hasn't found that certain guy. so, know, i don't think that you are an old maid. and your not old, so don't let people tell you that. remember that when you marry, its forever. so i'm diffinetly trying not to rush that. LOL
Reply:You sound like an independent gal that has no issues with being by herself. Good for you!! I wouldn't classify anyone at the age of 28 as an 'old maid', but if it turns out to be true there are worst fates. If you were a guy, you'd receive accolades for being a wise 'ole bachelor. It could be that no one interests you at this point in time. And in view of your life experience, you're probably not seen as a gullible easy mark that will believe all the b.s. lines guys sometimes play girls with. You definitely aren't co-dependent b/c you aren't waiting for someone else to act in order for you to live your life. If you cross paths with an interesting guy that is right for you, just have faith you'll recognize him for what he is. There's no rush and there's so many other ways to spend your time. Keep focusing on yourself and don't worry so much about a future mate. You sound like quite a gal! Good Luck